Crazy Week pt 1 – Winning a 2009 Mustang

You’re reading that right. I won a 2009 45th Anniversary red Ford Mustang. Every year the parish I belonged to in Erie gives away a new car to the person with the lucky raffle ticket and this year it was in my pocket. Kinda. Since I moved to Pittsburgh in 1998 I haven’t had many chances to return for the festival because of obligations in town so Mom will buy tickets for myself, my brother and all of our kids. The running joke with many of us from the parish is that it is never anyone young or local who wins the car so I’m proud to be the one to end that tradition. Well the never young at least.
My phone rang Sunday night around 10:20pm with a frantic mom on the phone. I forgot that the festival was going on and thought something serious had just happened. Here is how the call went:
Mom: Douglas, are you sitting down? (great way to start a call eh?)
Douglas: ummmmm yeah. what’s wrong
M: You will NOT believe who won the car
D: Don’t really care but who? I’m watching TV.
M: IT WAS YOU!!!
D: STFU! I did not! No one ever wins that thing!
M: You did and you need to come to Erie and get it!
D: OK but mom… what car is it? (Seriously, I didn’t even know what car it was this year)
M: 2009 Mustang! Here talk to Bill (member from the church). He’ll give you the details.
From there the dream quickly began to change. I had the choice for $10,000 or the car. The catch, the Mustang is a coupe and has NO room for a baby seat. There I sat speechless, father of a 5 month old and in dire need of a new family car. I would call Bill back in the morning and tell him my decision. Before I was even off the phone Facebook and Twitter was already buzzing from people at the festival announcing I was the winner. Calls and txt messages started coming in faster than when Teaspoon was born.
I can already sense everyone reading this going “oh no…”
After much debating, calming down and thinking logically we had made the decision. We have to trade in the car. If I this was even 1.5 years ago it would be a no brainer to keep the car (even store it) but the responsible father in me says “trade it in and get something for the family” and that’s what we did. We have 2 cars already with high mileage that we dumped a good chunk of change into this summer (nice when you’re laid off, huh) so we thought this was the sign.
This past Monday I drove up to the dealership with Lushie, told them I was trading in the car and needed to find something new. We spent the next few hours car shopping and test driving before we settled on a vehicle. (Now I’m not telling you what we’re getting cuz I know you crazy ass stalkers will get all “OMG! it’s spoon’s car! Hurry up get a picture and add it to our shrine because we crazy ass”. Yeah I don’t need that.) We would trade in the Mustang and one of our cars, which we owed on, for a new ride. Now it will be a couple weeks for the title transfer but until then its sit and wait as I know the anticipation will kill me. The way we saw it was “We got rid of the old high mileage car which we owed on for a newer vehicle and long kickass warranty and no car payments.” Besides, I won a car!
While it’s bittersweet to make this trade I did have to laugh at this fact. My dad worked that car booth at the festival for over 30 years and was the voice of the festival which could be heard for up to 5 blocks away. Now 3 years after he passed, his son wins the car.

Congrats! On the win and on the new family car! Funny how things work out, right?
Thanks Stacey! I REALLY like our new ride. drives like a dream and I couldnt even tell i was doing 90… errr 65.
LOL … u gotta minivan … at least it sounds like you did … i went thru the same denial when we got out 1st … luv em now, makes life easy … gratz on the stang win just the same
its not a minivan but a.. well you’ll see eventually
I know St James is all abuzz about the fact a Derda won. I’m keeping a copy of the car pic, ticket and flier so when Teaspoon is 16 and says “dad, what have you ever done for me.” and then I’ll lay down the stang pics.
Wow! That’s awesome! Congratulations. And for the record – I would have grudgingly traded it in too.
the new one is a nice replacement. I guess if i was going through a midlife crisis I could have kept it too and we’d just strap Teaspoon to lushie’s waist
Congratulations! I hope this is the start of a big winning streak for you.
Congrats on the Stang. Congrats on the new vehicle (from the trade on the Stang). Yah, being a father, or Step-Father (in my case), does shift the mind a bit. You still have time for your midlife crisis…even if its a little late. Mine’s delayed until I can find a Jaguar I can afford
(I know, but I can dream can’t I?) lol
I hope I can stay on this streak!
Sweet. All I won last week was a playmat for magic.
I stumbled on this blog from a friends facepage and just love your story. When it is time you will not only be blessed with a beautiful child (grown) and you will be able to buy any vehichle you want. (within budget of course) I would have done the same thing and plastered pictures everywhere for proof
Congrats
Thanks fort stoppin by Carol! I talked to the wifey and she said that this coming spring I should be able to shop for a car for me. Truth be told I’d love to have a truck.
bitersweet is right… wow – somehow i guessed i missed this… too bad on the newest upset… im sure fate will be good to you considering your upswing
also sorry to hear about your dad- but i know exactly the kind of raffle wrangler you describe…. i have one too
and can completley hear that phone call in my head LOL!! nicely written frined.. and cheers to those of us life is smacking the face with responsible descions that suck to make because they are the RIGHT thing to do … *sigh* reality bites